Updates

06 November 2019 Update

Added Widowhood to the Grief Page.

29 September 2019 Update

I have not kept up with the updates as I have written them this month. I converted 15 of my pages to the new block editor. I continue to write and finished most of 1985. I also wrote a story under “Stories–Other” called “The Meanest Man”. I also added a new page under about this blog called “Connie – Through My Eyes”

29 September 2019 Update

I decided to do my work off line this month and post at the end of the month. I have written about the year 1984 and wrote a story that happened that year “The Russian — 1984”. I also converted the “About This Blog” to the Block Editor. You will not see any changes to the pages it just that we are suppose to have all of our stuff in the new format by the end of this year or next. I have also begun running some of the pages through an editor called Grammarly that should help with some of my grammar mistakes. This month I ran a few of the funnies through it and am using it on all new pages.

05 September 2019 Update

I have update te year 1983 with some additional information that occurred to me after I posted August updates.

30 August 2019 Update

I have posted a story in the funnies called “The Purse” it happened on our trip to Sint Maarten and Saint Martin.

29 August 2019 Update

I have finished through 1983. There was not much I recalled about that year.

28 August 2019 Update

While, I have not posted many updates I have been writing off line about 1982 and 1983. I decided to put our trip to Sint Maarten and Saint Martin that we took in 1983 under trips where it belongs. I am still working on 1983 and hope to finish it before I send out the next update.

18 August 2019 Update

It feel like forever since I have written in the blog. My computer kept crashing and I finally got a new one set up. I finished writing about the Hawaii trip and Thanksgiving 1982. I put the stories others in the correct other. I had started editing that with Grammarly to correct all my mistakes but I lost all that work and will have to redo it. I had also converted it to the new editor which I also lost. Hope to get more done the next couple of weeks.

31 July 2019 Update

I just posted a new page under “Our Story (80-XX)” — “Sacrificial Love 1982 & 1983”. The story so for goes through early November 1982. It includes a gallery of 14 pictures most of them of Connie and I from Hawaii. I hope to finish 1982 ad 1983 next month. The music I selected for this page was “My True Love” by Jake Scott.

30 July 2019 Update

I just posted a new page under “Our Story (80-XX)” — “Sacrificial Love 1982 & 1983”. The story so for goes through early November 1982. It includes a gallery of 14 pictures most of them of Connie and I from Hawaii. I hope to finish 1982 ad 1983 next month. e

27 July 2019 Update

I just posted an update to “Stories — Others” called “The Blackout – Summer 1967”. Since I had just posted a story about me before I met Connie. I decided to post one about Connie before she met me. These are stories we shared with each other many times. I am trying to finish up the year 1982 before I publish the blog at the end of the month.

20 July 2019 Update

I just posted an update to “The Funnies” called “Sprichst du Deutsch”. While this happen before I met Connie I decided to post it because she always like the story. I am currently writing about the year 1982 and have gotten to October of that year. I hope to finish it and 1983 before the end of the month.

17 July 2019 Update

As of right now I do not have update.I cannot believe I have not written yet this month. The first 10 days of July I was sick with a bad sinus infection and then I had to catch up on the work I do for the church, then I had computer problems. I will see what I can get done during the rest of July.

25 June 2019 Update

I have updated the page “Stories — Other” was a story called “A Bad Bight in Toronto” . It just a short story about an overnight trip to Toronto..

23 June 2019 Update

I have finished the page “Sacrificial Love — 80-81.

22 June 2019 Update

I have been continuing to work offline on the years 1980 and 1981. So I may be changing the title of that page to “Sacrificial Love — 80-81. I think I am done except for one more little story to add about Christmas 1981. It should be very short and I will finish it in the next couple of day. After that I will probably start a new section as this section is over 13 pages.

15 June 2019 Update

I have added a story to “Stories — The Funnies” called “Underwear and The Coyotes”. It is kind of an embarrassing story that Connie used to tell about me.

07 June 2019 Update

I have been working offline to complete the years 1980 and 1981. I think I am done except for one more little story to add about Christmas 1981. It should be very short and I will finish it in the next couple of day. After that I will probably start a new section as this section is over 13 pages.

I have gone back and update the page “Sacrificial Love –1980”. I inserted a story near the top about a car accident that Connie had in February of 1980. I have highlighted this in blue for now.

29 May 2019 Update

I selected the song “You’ve Made Me So Very Happy” by Gloria Estefan for the new page “Sacrificial Love — 1980.

27 May 2019 Update

I have been working offline this past week trying to finish 1980 but I stopped yesterday to write the story I just posted under “Stories — Other” — The Ax Murder”. It was such a significant event during the summer of 1980 and had all of this area talking about it. Since we knew people that knew some of the people involved in it was of special interest to us. Only after reading the book that was published several years later did we really understand all that was going on.

20 May 2019 Update

I have reviewed The Funnies to try to make sure the stories are in the correct order.

16 May 2019 Update

I have added a story to the “Stories –The Funnies” called Wolf. It happened in August 1979.

09 May 2019 Update

I think I have finished up writing all of the tidbits from the 70s for the page “Sacrificial Love — The 80’s.

06 May 2019 Update

I have started the page “Sacrificial Love — The 80s. I am not sure if I will place it under our story or will redo the menu. It starts with tidbits that I forgot to write about that happened in the 70’s.

30 April 2019 Update

I have updated “In Memory — Scholarship” page with information about the winner of the third scholarship given in Connie’s name. Her name is Emily S.

29 April 2019 Update

I add a story to “Stories– The Funnies” . It is called Target and happened in 1976.

28 April 2019 Update

I cleaned up the Music page so that it new reflects the song that is on each page. I also spent time at redid the Table of Contents page so that it now reflects all the correct information.

27 April 2019 Update

I realized today when I went to update the music table that I had the same song on “Sacrificial Love — The Beginning and Sacrificial Love — Continued 1976. I changed to song on Sacrifical Love — Continued 1976 to “Till I Kissed You” by the Everly Brothers

21 April 2019 Update

Today, I decided to do some minor tweaking of the menu structure. Unfortunately that was a mistake as I accidentality delete it. It took me over 3 hours to recreate it and get it back to where I wanted it.

20 April 2019 Update

Today, I decided to do some minor tweaking of the menu structure. Unfortunately that was a mistake as I accidentality delete it. It took me over 3 hours to recreate it and get it back to where I wanted it.

I noticed in reviewing the scholarship page, that I had not assign a song to it. So I added “Little Thigs Mean a Lot” by Kitty Kallen. To Connie it was the little things that counted.

31 March 2019 Update

Today I added a section to the “Grief” page called “Three Year Later” an update about how I am doing after three years. It was very hard to write and in some place may ramble a little bit.

30 March 2019 Update

Today I updated the indexes to “Sacrificial Years – The Rest of the 70’s . I hope it will help all who read this blog.

29 March 2019 Update

 I have completed “Sacrificial Years – The Rest of the 70’s . There are few things that I cannot remeber exactly the time frame and I may add them as tidbits to the 70’s. .

26 March 2019 Update

 I have added two stories to the “Stories — Others”. One is about an experience I ahd at H&R Block. Connie thought it was funny because it happened to me but I decided to put it in the other section. The other is about a visit to Whataburger.

23 March 2019 Update

 I have almost completed a new page “How am I doing after 3 years”. It should be finished and posted by the time I send out the next update.

17 March 2019 Update

 I was wrong as I had not written about Christmas 1978. I just remembered what we did that year so I have updated the page “Sacrificial Years — The Rest of the 70’s”.

15 March 2019 Update

 I know it does not appear from these updates that I have been doing much on the blog but I am. I have been working offline to complete the year 1978 for “Sacrificial Love — The Rest of the 70’s”. It was harder than I thought because I kept trying to put events in the right year. I think that will get even harder for the 80’s and 90’s. The good news is that I have finished 1978 and hope to finish 1979 before the end of the month.

14 March 2019 Update

 While, I continue to work on “Sacrificial Love — The Rest of the 70’s”. I thought of something that I wanted to add to Sacrificial Love — 1976. I added a paragraph to the section about Summer / Tornado / New Car. The new paragraph talks about photography but it shows the love Connie had for me.

06 March 2019 Update

 I cannot believe what I did. I just realized after I posted the “Crusie Febrraury 2016” I had already published a story about that called “The Last Vacation”. Now I am intrested in reading both of them to see how good my memory was. I published the first one on March 03, 2018 and the last one on February 28, 2019.

I have started working on “Sacrificial Love — The Rest of the 70’s”. I really hope to finish it this month.

28 February 2019 Update

 I  did not finish “Sacrificial Love — The Rest of the 70’s”. I really struggled with trying to get things In the right order. Hopefully I can clear my mind an finish it next month.

I added a song to “New This Month” called “Running Bear”. It really has nothing to do with Connie and I. I heard this song a couple of weeks ago and it brought back memories of when I got my first transistor radio at Christmas 1958. It was the number one song then.

27 February 2019 Update

 I have been working offline on our last cruise that we took. We took it from February 21st through February 28th 2016. So each day, of this corresponding February day, I wrote what we did on that exact day 3 years ago. I have some pictures posted in that page. It turned out to be over 10 pages. I seemed to have remember a lot about certain days. It is under “Trips” – “Cruise February 2016.

25 February 2019 Update

 I have added a story under “Stories — Connie Stories” called “Underpants Gang Part 1”. I continue to world on :The rest of the 1970’s offline. Right now I am just hoping I can finish 1978 before the end of the month. .

18 February 2019 Update

 I have added a story to the “Grief” page. It a letter that my friend Lynda from the cancer blog wrote while awaiting a medical appointment. It reminds us that it does not take long to realize our life has changed forever. .

17 February 2019 Update

 I have written another story under “Stories — Others” called “She said I am a Christian” and it scared me..

15 February 2019 Update

 I am still working on “Sacrificial Love –The rest of the 70’s. I have updated some information that I thought of that happened during the first 9 months and have continued on with the rest of that year. I still have more to write. I hope to finish it and 1979 before the end of the month. .

8 February 2019 Update

 I have added to Sacrificial Love — The Rest of the 70’s, information about the first 9 month of 1978. I have been working on this offline.

7 February 2019 Update

 I have selected a song that I am going to use for the :New This Month” page. I will add it at the end of February. It has nothing to do with Connie and I story together. But it was the number one song when I got my first transistor radio. It is called “Running Bear” by Johnny Preston.

30 January 2019 Update

 I have added a page to the “Trips” called “South Padre Island — 1977”. It could have been called “Your Late for Your Vacation”. I mentioned it in the page I added this month called “Sacrificial Years — Rest of the 70’s” .  I have also added two songs “My Love” by Petula Clark to the new page “Sacrificial Years — Rest of the 70’s” and “Because You Loved Me” by Celine Dion to the “New This Month’ page 

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29 January 2019 Update

 I have redone the “Sacrificial Love — The Rest of the 70’s to make sure it is in chronological order. I thought I would get much further this month but I only finished 1977.

26 January 2019 Update

 I continue to work on the page “Sacrificial Love — The Rest of the 70’s . This period covers 1977, 78, and 79. I am going to post what I have so for which is most of 1977. While I remember things, I am struggling with this section to make sure I get them in the right order.

17 January 2019 Update

 I have updated the “About Connie” page to the new block editor. Still working on the Galleries of pictures on that page with the new editor.

14 January 2019 Update

 I have added a story to “Stories” — ” The Funnies” called :The Liquor Store 2006 or 2007″. Just the adventure of Connie and one of our friends going into a liquor store and what happened.

13 January 2019 Update

 I am continuing to work on the next segment under “Our Story” called “Sacrificial Love — The Rest of the 70’s. I continue to do this offline and I am struggling trying to get all the events I remember in the right order. During this period of time I am having a hard time recalling in what order they have happen. I have also thought about a funny to add next this month.

05 January 2019 Update

 I have started working on the next segment under “Our Story” called “Sacrificial Love — The Rest of the 70’s. I am doing this work offline and it is not coming as easy as it did before. Before I would just sit down and start writing but this time I had to sit and jot down notes about things that happened during that time and try to put them in chronological order.

31 December 2018 Update

 I have spent a lot of this month learning the new software for writing and editing. It took a while but I was finally able to learn the new way of inserting jumps (indexes) into a page. I have added an index to the new page under “Our Story” — “Sacrificial Years — Continued 1976”. I also added a story to “:The Funnies” called “Barley or Wheat or Oats” .   

29 December 2018 Update

 I have continue to write “Sacrificial Years 1976-XXXX offline. I finished it and have decided t change the name to Sacrificial Years 1976 because I wrote so much more than I thought I would about that year.   

15 December 2018 Update

 I added a new page under “Our Stories” called “Connie’s Stories”. Connie wrote several little stories where our friends where characters in the stories. I have posted the Acknowledgement page from her story “the Librarian Did It” s. Since I have found a few of the stories she wrote, I am going to post them over time.   

10 December 2018 Update

 I added a song to the new page “A Short Vacation” to the “Trips” menu. I am not going to tell you what the song is as that would give away the story..   

08 December 2018 Update

Today, I added a new page called “A Short Vacation” to the “Trips” menu. I think it was the shortest vacation in history or at least close.   The song will give away where we went. 

05 December 2018 Update

I continue working on the Year 1976 and have finished through June of that year. I am looking for a different music player for the blog but have not found one that I like better than the basic one that comes with Word Press yet.   

30 November 2018 Update

I have update “About This Blog” with a new poem called “Speak Their Name”. I also move the parts about healing from the pain and the journey to the “Grief” page. I also update the “New This Month ” page with all the updates and added a new song called “I Love The Way You Loved Me”    

29 November 2018 Update

I have posted  a new page under “Our Story” called “Sacrificial Years Continued — 1976 — XXXX”. This is all the work I have done offline so far this month. I have n ot made much progress in the last 11 days as I have had a cold and have been looking for pictures for this page. The other thing slowing me down is the software I am using has made major changes to the writing part and I am facing a learning curve adopting to the new software.  

18 November 2018 Update

While  I have not updated anything on the blog this past week, I continue to work on “Sacrificial  Years Continued — 1976-XXXX”. I am doing this offline and am about half way through 1976. I have been spending a lot of my blog time looking for pictures from that time  period and selecting more music for the blog. I may start rotting the songs. 

12 November 2018 Update

I updated the “Table Of Contents” with “Sacrificial Years Continued — January 1976 –XXXX” . I also added a menu item for this section under “Our Story”. I will be adding part of this section before the end of the month. I continue writing in this section offline.  

07 November 2018 Update

As I continue writing about 1976, I have added a story under “Stories” — “The Funnies” called “The Wrap Around Skirt” another story about one of Connie and my neighbors.

05 November 2018 Update

As I continue writing about 1976, I have added a story under “Stories” — “Others”  called “The Abuser” something Connie and I ran into with one of our neighbors.  

03 November 2018 Update

I have started a new section under “Our Story” but am not sure what I am going to call it yet. I am doing this work off line right now and will post what I have later in the month. I already have two side stories that I need to write about 1976.  

31 October 2018 Update

I added a saying from Megan Devine to the top of “About This Blog” . I have updated “New this Month” with the changes for October and I changed the song on that page. 

24 October 2018 Update

I have finished “Sacrifical Years — The Beginning” under “Our Story”. This takes us through 1975.  

20 October 2018 Update

I have update “Stories” – “Others” with a new story  ‘The Movies — 1973 & 1975″. It about two of the earlier movies that Connie and I saw. The Exorcist in 1973 and Jaws in 1975..

16 October 2018 Update

I have update “Stories” – “Others” with two new stores. One is about a call Connie received from Ross Perot in August 1975 getting us into see a specialist. The other is about Connie’s intuition on a trip we made to Phoenix in September of 1975..

14 October 2018 Update

I have update “Our Story” – “Sacrificial Love – The Beginning ” through August of 1975. I also edit some pictures of a picnic we had in May of 1975 and added them to the blog. I am hoping to finish this section in about a week or so. 

07 October 2018 Update

I change the picture of our home in “Our Story” — “Sacrificial Love The Beginning” . The one I originally used was taken much later than when we lived there. I went back and found a picture that I had taken in 1975 and used it. I am continuing to write about that year and have been working on some picture of a picnic we went on with Connie’s sisters family.

04 October 2018 Update

I am continuing to update the page “Our Story” — “Sacrificial Love The Beginning” . I have completed writing about the months of March and April and will continue with May when I write again.

30 September 2018 Update

I have updated the page “new This Month” with all the changes for the month. I also replace the song on that page with “Because You Loved Me ” by Celine Dion.

25 September 2018 Update

I have added another story to “Stories — The Funnies”  called “Golfing”. A story about Connie and her adventure on the Golf course.

10 September 2018 Update

I have added another story to “Stories — Others” called “The Fainting Student”. A story from my college days.

7 September 2018 Update

I have added another story to “Stories — The Funnies” called “Wedding Crashers”. I hope you enjoy it. I continue writing about “Sacrificial Love — The Beginning” under “Our Story”. I am writing it offline and will post as far as I get this month later.

3 September 2018 Update

I have started the page “Sacrificial Love — The Beginning” under “Our Story”. I am writing it offline and will post as far as I get this month.

31 August 2018 Update

I have updated the “In Memory” — “St Jude” page with a tribute to Fr. Tim. 

It Jude ” have added a new page under “Our Story” — “Sacrificial Years — The Beginning”. I will being writing on this next stage of our life in September.

I have updated the “New This Month” page. I selected a new song for the page as I said I would try to rotate songs each month. The new song for this month is  — If I Had Only Known by Reb McEntire. .

26 August 2018 Update

I have finished under “Our Story” — ” EDS Starting A Career”. Next I will be staring a new section under “Our Story” which begins in January 1975. I am lookin for ideas on naming this page. It will have to do with the beginning of the Sacrificial Years  because that was the year I gor sick and was eventually diagnosis with Rheumatoid Arthritis. Maybe I will call it the “Beginning of the Sacrificial Years” as the title of my blog is Sacrificial Love. Anyone else have other suggestions. 

22 August 2018 Update

The music had stopped playing automatically when a page was loaded and I spent several hours over the last two days trying to figure out why. I am not sure I know why it happened but I suspect an upgrade to the software I use WordPress.  I found a way to fix it and once I determined that it only took a few minutes on each page to get the music to automatically play on the loading of a page. 

20 August 2018 Update

I have added an index to the top of the page “Our Story” – “The Engagement” .

13 August 2018 Update

I have added music to the page “New This Month” I plan on rotating the music on this page every month. So for the month of September the music will be “Never Anyone Else But You” by Ricky Nelson.

I am also working on finishing the topic “EDS Starting A Career” this should take us into January 1975 . I will start a new topic then. 

07 August 2018 Update

I have added an index at the top of the page to  “Stories-Others” – for your convenience…

06 August 2018 Update

I have added an index to the top of the page to “Our Story” – “The Beginning for your convenience..

05 August 2018 Update

I have added to “Stories” – “The Funnies” an index at the top of the page with links. You can now click on any link and it will take you directly to that story. I plan on adding an index to more pages this month.  

31 July 2018 Update

I added a new topic called “New This Month” it is located between the “Table of Contents” and “About This Blog”. It will have links to take you directly to the new information  that I have posted this month. It should make it easier to find what has been added this month

I have also decided to change the “About This Blog” saying that are directly next to Connie and my picture with a different saying every month. Most of these will come from information that  people on the cancer blog provided to me. I hope in some way they may be helpful to someone..

29 July 2018 Update

I added some more information to “Our Story ” — “EDS Staring A Career” . 

21 July 2018 Update

I have updated “Our Story ” — “EDS Staring A Career” through the completion of my Phase II training in mid February 1974″. I will continue this story till I reach January of 1975 then I will start a new chapter.  

15 July 2018 Update

I have updated “About This Blog” —  “About Connie” with a gallery of pictures from her first communion in May of 1956.  I have almost finished my recollection of Phase II portion of “Our Story'” – “EDS Starting A Career”.

13 July 2018 Update

I have updated “Stories” – “The Funnies” with a new story called “That Hamburger Smell and Vanilla Extract”. It will be posted t the top of the funnies and bolded this month. I also continue to work off line on My experiences during the Phase II portion of “Our Story” – “EDS Starting A Career”. 

7 July 2018 Update

I am continuing to write about Connie and my experiences in Dallas starting in November of 1973. I have covered our trip to Dallas and the first week of my classes  during the Phase II program.  It will appear under “Our Story — EDS Starting a Career”.

I continue working on the pictures of Connie’ first communion. I am now working on those picture she had taken with her and her father and her mother.  They will appear later this month in “About Connie”. 

3 July 2018 Update

I have started writing about Connie and my experiences in Dallas starting in November of 1973 as I continued my training with EDS. It will appear under “Our Story — EDS Starting a Career”. 

30 June 2018 Update

I have updated “In Memory” – “Remembrances”  with a  gallery of pictures relating to things, I have had made or were given to me in remembrance of Connie. This took several days to do and I hope you enjoy.  

24 June 2018 Update

I have updated “Stories” – “Stories-Others” with a story called “The Re-Painter”. A short little story about Connie and her love for painting. 

22 June 2018 Update

I have updated “Our Story” – “EDS Starting A Career” with the events of the summer of 1973. This will take us to November of that year when I left Indiana. I will start there next. . I have also updated the picture gallery of “About Connie: with some more early pictures of her.

I have been spending a lot of time working on all the old pictures that her mother left us and will use them to create future galleries of pictures. 

16 June 2018 Update

I have selected a song for the “About Sparkie” page and it is “One Boy” by Joanne Sommers. There was a certain verse there that just spoke to me. I also made minor changes to the page. I am continuing  to work on the summer of 1973 offline and will post when I am finished. I have also updated the “Music Selection” page.

10 June 2018 Update

I have added before the summer of 1973 what the company Electronic Data Systems (EDS) was all about as I will spend the next 32 year there. It will also give you an insight in too what Connie and my first 18 months with the company were about.

I also updated the ” Grief” page with a poem by Kelly A Polley called “A Wish Come True”. As like other pages this will be at the top and I will move it at the end of next month. 

3 June 2018 Update

I have starting writing about the summer of 1973, the one that Connie and I spent in Indianapolis Ind..

31 May 2018 Update

I have updated the page “Stories — The Funnies” with the story “Babysitters – July 1973” I also added pictures of a second quilt that Sue made for me to the “In Memory” — “Remembrance ” page. 

30 May 2018 Update

I have updated the page “Our Story” — “EDS Starting A Career”. There was so much going on that first week that all I got done this month, one week of this part of the story but it will go much faster now.  Updated the “Grief” page with a personal story of how a person was feeling after suffering the loss of their husband. Today would have been our 48th anniversary. Happy anniversary Connie.

27 May 2018 Update

I have added a new page called “Grief” to the blog. It is intended to help those who want to know what or what not to do when someone has lost a loved one. The music I selected for this page is “There You Will Be” by Faith Hill  because I was blessed to have you in my life.

I also updated the “Music” and “Table of Contents” to reflect the changes.

19 May 2018 Update

I made the page “EDS – Starting A Career” under ‘Our Story” and the page “Remembrances'” under “in Memory”  available and update the “Table of Contents” both of these pages are still being worked on and will be for quite a while.

13 May 2018 Update

I have completed the first 4 day of  “EDS – Starting a Career”.  I cannot believe I wrote two pages covering the last 4 days of May. I also fixed the music so it will start when you go to this page.

9 May 2018 Update

I have  started a new page under “Our Story” called “EDS – Starting a Career”. It will cover from May 28, 1973 until Spring of 1975, when our story changed to one of sacrificial love. I have chosen the song “Stuck With You” by Huey Lewis and the News for this page. Nancy thanks for recommending it..

6 May 2018 Update

I have decided on the song for the “Remembrance ” page. It is “Devoted To You” by the Everly Brothers.

5 May 2018 Update

I have started a new page called  “Remembrances” . It will be located under “In Memory”. This page will contain things that I have done to keep her memory alive for me and others. I am starting this page with a picture of a quilt that a friend of a friend made for me out of Connie’s blouses. Thank you Sue. I love the quilt and will always treasure it.

1 May 2018 Update

Last night I attended the Allen High School Foundation awards ceremony where they handed out scholarships to the graduating seniors. I have updated the “Scholarship” page with the winner of the second annual winner of the :Connie M. Buntley” scholarship which was Vivian T.

30 April 2018 Update

I have added a new story to “The Funnies” it is “the Disappearing Milkshake”. I have move the stories from the previous month to their correct chronological order. 

29 April 2018 Update

I have completed “The College Years” this update contains memories from January 1st 1973 through May 27th 1973. We left on May 28th for my new job with Electronic Data Systems (EDS) in Indianapolis, Indiana . I am starting to wonder how much I will remember about the working years as all of know sometime the days seem to run together. I sure wish I had Connie’s input into these memories.

24 April 2018 Update

I have added a story to “Stories”- “Other-Stories” called “Valentine’s Flowers to Another Woman”. This story just go to show us there are strange things that happen in our lives. This is a story that I have not thought about in over 35 years..

22 April 2018 Update

Believe it or not I am still working on the blog this month even if the updates do not show it. I have spent a lot of time looking at the way I want to handle some of the pictures for this blog. . I have chosen a method called galleries after 2 weeks of trying many different things. I have updated “About Connie” and have enclosed her younger pictures in a gallery called “The Early Years” . Double click on any picture in the gallery and it will open up a larger view and allow you to scroll forward or backwards through all the picture and display the caption. See instructions on that page.  I am still  working offline on finishing “The College Years” which will takes us through the 27th of May 1973. It should be completed by the end of the month.

15 April 2018 Update

While you made be thinking the months half over and Sparkie has not done anything on his blog yet. Your wrong. I have been working offline on finishing “The College Years” which will takes us through the 27th of May 1973.

I have also been experimenting with different galleries to display pictures. I hope to use one on the  “About Connie” page before the end of April. . 

31 March 2018 Update

In ” About This Blog — About Connie” I have added a picture of Connie, her parents, and her brother from July 1948 when she was 3 months old.

24 March 2018 Update

In ” About This Blog” I have added a poem by Kahlil Gibran  — it is about Love not knowing it true depth until it has been separated and to be thankful for what you had. I found it helped me. I added this poem next to Connie’s and My picture at the beginning of the page.

23 March 2018 Update

In ” Stories  – Other”  I written “The Christmas Surprise”.

22 March 2018 Update

In ” Stories — The Funnies. I  have to written “Connie First Time Preparing Thanksgiving Dinner”  

18 March 2018 Update

In ” Our Story – The College Years”, I have finished documenting 1972 except where I reference a couple of side stories that will be in other sections. I still have to write ‘Connie First Time Preparing Thanksgiving Dinner” which will be  added to “Stories -The Funnies” and “The Christmas Surprise” which will be added to “Stories – Others”. 

17 March 2018 Update

In “Stories – The Funnies”, I have added a story about Connie’s experience with the first St. Patrick day she celebrated in the south.

09 March 2018 Update

In “Our Story – The College Years”, I continues to update the year 1972. I am about half-way through 1972.

07 March 2018 Update

I have added to “Stories -The Funnies” the story about the Japanese Hamburger place in Indianapolis Indiana.

04 March 2018 Update

I found the perfect song for the Section “About Connie”. It is “My Specail Angel by Bobby Vinton”. She was my perfect angel and continues to be that for me. 

28 February 2018 Update

As I mentioned  earlier I have been writing ‘Our Story — The College Years” off line. I have finished up the year 1971 and have posted it to this blog. 

28 February 2018 Update

I have finished the section “Trips — The Last Cruise”. This sections has several pictures in it, including a picture of me getting a facial. Also a picture of me that maybe a little risqué. 

26 February 2018 Update

In the section “Trips — The Last Cruise”. I have added the song that I selected for this page “A Thousand Stars” by Kath Young. I also updated the table under Music with this selection. pictures.

24 February 2018 Update

In the section “Trips  — The Last Cruise”. I have completed the first 3 days of our cruise through our visit to Key West. I also added several pictures. 

22 February 2018 Update

In the section “Trips  I have added “The Last Cruise”. This is the story of the last cruise Connie and I took together and how happy we were.   

18 February 2018 Update

In the section “Stories — The Funnies” I have added “The Mute”. It is one of the few stories that I recall the exact day time and location of..

09 February 2018 Update

I am still writing  but am doing it offline for the section “The College Years” I am currently about halfway through 1971. When I finished 1971 I will post it.”.

04 February 2018 Update

In the section “In Memory — St Jude ” I have document the section “Aprons — For The Bereavement Team”.

31 January 2018 Update

In the section “Stories — The Funnies” I have added “Toenails (1986) and have moved “The Shoe Toss” to it place in chronological order.

30 January 2018 Update

In the section “In Memory — St Jude” I have completed documenting the section about the priest vestments that I purchased for the priest and deacons of St. Jude.

27 January 2018 Update

In the section “Our Story”- “The College Years” , I am continuing to document they year 1971 and will finish that year soon.

21 January 2018 Update

In the section “Our Story”- “The College Years” , I have documented some of the things that happen in 1971. Early that year I lost my father. I will continue documenting 1971 during the rest of the month.

14 January 2018 Update

In the section “Stories”- “Stories — Other” , I have added a story “Connie’s Father”. This happened before I met Connie but it was just something I had to document as there was not a week in 46 years that she did not talk about her father.

07 January 2018 Update

In he section “Stories”- “Stories — Other” , I have added the story ‘The Quick Thinker – August 1970″. For some reason this story pop into my mind today and I decided to document it quickly before I forgot it. Just shows Connie was the quick thinker.

31 December 2017 Updates

 I have made some fundamental changes for this blog. From now on, everything new added during the month will be bold and as soon as I add something new to that page the next month or later I will unblood it. So the bold words will be the new additions of updates for the month. Also new addition to “The Funnies” will be at the top of that page and will be bolded. The next month I will move it to it correct chronological order and remove the bold . 

31 December 2017 Updates

 I have update “The Funnies” with the story about “The Shoe Toss).

27 December 2017 Updates

 “The College Years” have been updated through the end of 1970 which was our first partial year as husband and  wife.

26 December 2017 Updates

I have continue to  update the “St. Jude’ page under “In Memory” . I  added the vestments that I gave to Fr. Greg and al little bit about that..

22 December 2017 Updates

I have update the “St. Jude’ page under “In Memory” . I have been working offline looking for some pictures and writing about the vestments. I have added a picture of the Vestment that we gave to Fr. Tim from Ernie and Christine with the words “RIP Veronica nd Lawrence O’Neill” and have wrote about that.

11 December 2017 Updates

 I have added to “The College Years” more information about starting to college and our first fall we spent together.

3 December 2017 Updates

Added two new pages “Blog Comments” were you can comment about the blog and “Music” which contains a table of the music I have used in this blog and why I selected  it for that page.

30 November 2017 Updates

 Added a picture of Connie at 6 months with her mother in Waterbury CT. to the “About Connie” page.

28 November 2017 Updates

I have updated “The Driving Test” in “The Funnies” to include  what happened after the driving test.

I also added pictures of the first house we lived in to “The College Years”.

28 November 2017 Updates

 I have completely re-written my updates to “The College Years”. I was not happy with how it read, so I re-did the whole thing. “The College Years” now goes through our first summer together, right up to when I was starting to college. I will continue next month starting with my restarting to college. 

21 November 2017 Updates

I  added “The Driving Test August 1970” to “The Funnies”. Remember “The Funnies” are in date order.

19 November 2017 Updates

I updated “The College Years” with what I have written so for. I am writing it offline and copying and pasting it here. Still a lot of work to do on it.

18 November 2017 Updates

I added Shoplifting (Spring 1971) to “The Funnies”  . Remember “The Funnies” are in date order.

5 November 2017 Updates

 Added the song “So Many Ways’ as the song for the “Table of Contents” page because there were so many ways that I loved you Connie.

4 November 2017 Updates

The “Church- Related” under the “In Memory”  has been renamed to “St. Jude” as that is the parish over our lives we associate with the most. I also add the music “Litany of the Saints” to that page as it is the one Connie loved hearing most at mass..

3 November  2017 Updates

The “Table of Contents” page has been updated to include a table at the bottom to show what music is on each page who the artist is and why I chose that music for that page.”.

30 October 2017 Updates

Created a new page called “The College Years under “Our Story’ and a page called “Church Related’ under “In Memory”.

29 October 2017 Updates

I added to “The Funnies” a story call “The First Cake — Spring of 1969”. Remember “The Funnies” are in date order.

28 October 2017 Updates

 “The Wedding”, page is completed. I will take the next couple of days to read through it and make some correction. While this was a work of love and brought many smiles at the happy memories, I would be remiss if I did not tell you it also brought many tears. .

26 October 2017 Updates

In “The Wedding”, page I have started  with things happening after the wedding through the first week of our marriage..

23 October 2017 Updates

In “The Wedding”, page I have finished through the wedding ceremony. I hope to continue  and finish this by the end of the month.

19 October 2017 Updates

In “The Stories Page under Others”, I wrote about a visit to St. Thomas and a store called Sparky.

15 October 2017 Updates

I completed “The Wedding Page” through May 24, 1970 which was the day Connie graduated from, St. Joseph’s College in Standish Maine. 

10 October 2017 Updates

 I had links to all the pages on every page. They have been removed and only a link to the “Table of Contents” is on each page. The “Table of Contents” will contain link to all the other pages.

08 October  2017 Updates

 In the “Table Of Contents” page I made sure all links were marked.

30 September 2017 Updates

I added “The Red Socks (June 1973)” to “The Funnies”. Remember these stories are in date order.  I have updated the page (Stories-Other) with a song. I selected the “12th of Never” by Johnny Matthis.

29 September 2017 Updates

I have updated the “Table of Contents”. It can now be used to link to all the other pages. Based on suggestions of friends I have changed it so the music only plays once and not continuously for all pages except “The Train” page.  If you want to hear it again just hit the > button.

25 September 2017 Updates

In “About This Blog” I added a comment in blue next to Connie’s picture.

20 September 2017 Updates

I have add a higher level titles “Our Story” , “The Beginning”, “The Engagement” and eventually “The Wedding: and “The College Years” will be sub titles underneath that  heading .

I also continue to work on the “Table of Contents”. Hope to have it ready by the end of Septembers . .

16 September 2017 Updates

I have added the music to “The Wedding” page. It is our wedding song. I also have completed the first portion which is early May until I left for our wedding.

11 September 2017 Updates

I continue to update the Table Of Contents but it is still a work in progress. Added new music that will be used on other pages.

07 September 2017 Updates

Started a Table Of Contents page to make moving around in this blog easier. Started “The Wedding Page” . 

31 August 2017 Updates

Added a picture of Connie to “About Connie” and a picture of me to “About Sparkie”.

26 August 2017 Updates

Added “The Reason For This Blog” on the About This Blog page. It a simple quote I found  and it expresses why I continue to work on this blog.

23 August 2017 Updates

Added a new story under the section “Stories — Other”. It called “Xavier Hall &  The Chapel Fall of 1969”. Please read the sub story to this Called “Should She Have Been Scared”.

21 August 2017 Updates

I changed the name of the section “Funnies” to “Stories — The Funnies” and add underneath it “Stories — Others”. If you hover over a section you can see if there are other sections beneath it. I moved “The Bonfire” story to the new section and will be adding a new one soon.

19 August 2017 Updates

I have added to the “The Engagement Section” a heading called “Fall of 1969”. It contain a couple of stories I had forgotten about. I also added a picture of Connie and I to the Summer of 1969 in “The Engagement Section”.

16 August 2017 Updates

I have added a story to the “The Engagement Section” under Spring of 1970 called “The Bridal Shower”. I have also included a couple of pictures.

14 August 2017 Updates

I have added a story to the “The Engagement Section” under Winter of 1969 called “Connie – Student Teaching”.

8 August 2017 Updates

I have completed the section “The Engagement Years”.The next section will start in May of 1970 and continue through our honeymoon.

6 August 2017 Updates

Add a paragraph to “The Engagement Years” in the section the “Summer Years”  just above the picture of Bartley Nebraska. It about my hand be caught in a closing car door and a ring.

31 July 2017 Updates

Add a picture to About Connie taken in Amity Harbor NY when she was 2 yrs and 3 months old.

29 July 2017 Updates

Embarrassment in Hope Arkansas — Spring 1998 — has ben added to the Funnies. Remember the funnies are in date order.

28 July 2017 Updates

Completed the Engagement section for the year 1969.

24 July 2017 Updates

Added the song Step By Step by the Crest from 1960 to the Engagement Page.

12 July 2017 Updates

The Summer of 1969 was added to the engagement section. Also a picture of Bartley Nebraska. 

8 July 2017 Updates

The Funnies has been updated with “The Laundromat -1971. Remember the funnies are in date order.

30 June 2017 Updates

Added Key Lime Pie story to the funnies. It is at the very end as the funnies are in date order. Added to About Sparkie the earliest picture I have of me as a child.

27 June 2017 Updates

 Updated the engagement story through Spring of 1969.  Added a picture of Connie & Sparkie from April 1969..

 22 June 2017 Updates

 Added Trains sounds to the train page. Sounds provided by  www.freesfx.co.uk.  Added Dakota Indian proverb to Trains page.

14 June 2017 Updates

Added a wedding picture of Connie’s parents. Lawrence O’Neill and Veronica Keane on 26 October 1940..

07 June 2017 Updates

 Started the Engagement Years January 1969 through December 1969..

31 May 2017 Updates

I added links to all sections from the bottom of each page.                                                                Added a link to my friends blog Tim Schvaneveldt – New Mexico and Beyond.

30 May 2017 Updates

Music, I fixed the pages so the music would play automatically and in a continuous loop. Today would have been our 47th anniversary. Happy Anniversary Connie.                                             

29 May 2017 Updates

The Funnies has been updated with “The Dropped  Blanket Story”.                                            The Engagement Section has been updated for the time period  of August through December 1968.                                                          

14 May 2017 Updates

The Engagement Years was updated with a section “September through December 1968”!!

13 May 2017 Updates

New Section was added called The Train — It probably should be called The Train of Life. Anyway it was sent to me by one of my old Air Force Buddies and really  expressed how I feel!!

3 May 2017 Updates

The Funnies – I added the story of the bonfire on Lake Sebago. While it is not a funny story, it one I will always remember.

1 May 2017 Updates

The Engagement sections started.

28 April 2017 Updates

I added a scholarship page for the 2017 winner of the Connie M. Buntley scholarship.

24 April 2017 Updates

I finished the Beginning and  started The Engagement Years – August1968 – May 1970.

23 April 2017 Updates

The Funnies, the Beginning and About this blog had spelling and grammar errors corrected.

 16 April 2017 Updates

The Funnies was updated with  “The shoe exchange”.

15 April 2017 Updates

The Beginning was updated with  “The castles I showed Connie on our first date”.

4 April 2017 Updates

The Funnies were updated with the “Husband Give Away (2000)”.

3 April 2017 Updates

About Connie was updated with a picture of her at 3 1/2 months.
Updates were moved to the title bar and removed from About This Blog.

2 April 2017 Updates

The picture on about this blog was updated with Reichsburg Castle in Cochem Germany. The castle where I proposed to Connie.

25 March 2017 Updates

About Connie Header was changed.
About Sparkie Header was changed and information corrected.
The Beginning a picture of Luzerath was inserted..

24 March – 2017 Latest Updates